i believe we are constantly at odds with our selves that is to say the self we show to the outside world and the resentful self that is hidden within ourselves fighting to gain acceptance at least with ourselves. if we could harmonize the two presumably we could then have double the strength to conceive what our goal in this life is! without this tug of war inside we would be at piece and in harmony with ourselves and so be able to see with a lot more clarity our true destination in life. truth is within but can only be accessed when piece bakes out within yourself.